Stop the waterworks, ladies. Crying chicks aren't sexy

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Cry me a river, but don't expect to turn him on.

As any man with the slightest experience knows, a woman's tears are powerful tools, eliciting abject apologies, unexpected confessions and urgent begging of "Honey, stop, please." But one thing they are not, is sexy.

Now a team of Israeli neuroscientists think they know why. Emotional tears shut down male desire.

In a study published Thursday in the journal Science, the Weizmann Institute of Science researchers collected emotional tears from female volunteers by showing them sad movies. Then they had male test subjects sniff the actual tears and fake tears comprised of saline.

A whiff of the real deal caused testosterone levels in the men to drop significantly. They found pictures of women less sexually attractive. When the men were sent into brain scanners, and shown a sad film, the men who were exposed to the fake tears didn't show much lower activity in a region associated with sexual desire, but the activity in the same region was greatly reduced in men who breathed real tears.

The brain scans, the big yawn over alluring pictures and the drop in the he-man hormone led the scientists to conclude that "women's emotional tears contain a chemosignal that reduces sexual arousal in men."

The scientists haven't determined which component in blubbering tears caused the men to go limp, but "a major effort currently being carried out is to isolate the active component of the tears that exerts the physiological effect," Sagit Shusan, one of the study authors, said.

"Emotional" tears are different from tears caused by, say, an eye irritation, prior research has shown. Kari Green-Church, an expert in protein analysis at Ohio State University, has identified scores of tear proteins. "The function of proteins are wide-ranging," she said. Some defend the eyes against germs, some are hormones. Emotional tears from post-menopausal women are different from those of pre-menopausal women. In one experiment she conducted, her team ran samples from grad students and found "a protein unique to pregnancy and it turned out the women was pregnant."

Other researchers also have detected proteins associated with emotions: They've found dopamine and serotonin in tears, as well as prolactin, the desire-squelching hormone that spikes right after a man ejaculates and sends him running to watch SportsCenter rather than sticking around to cuddle.

Bottom line, ladies? If you're looking for arousal, don't turn on the waterworks.

Update: Nightly News covered the study, too:

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Well that's good information because, apparently, women cry because they want men to find them attractive...

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Reply#1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 2:51 PM EST

Exactly what I was thinking.

What a very odd take on this research. (I'm guessing the researchers are right now slapping their foreheads and saying I'll never talk to another reporter).

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#1.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:26 PM EST

Duh?

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#1.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:43 PM EST

Ap-- why would they be offended in any way from this article? The conclusion of their study was that:

“women’s emotional tears contain a chemosignal that reduces sexual arousal in men.”

Did you even read the article, or just the headline?

    #1.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:18 PM EST

    Yeah. Silly me, standing on a street corner weeping the other day, thinking it would get me some hot dates. Next they'll be telling us that men don't find it sexy when a woman is cleaning out the cat's litter box or clipping her toenails.

    • 23 votes
    #1.4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:54 PM EST

    But neither of those actions contain neurochemical compounds that illicit that response. Tears do. Read the article again and stop being offended because someone dared to suggest you have sex appeal.

    • 3 votes
    #1.5 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 9:37 PM EST

    WG, don't get sarcasm?

    • 2 votes
    #1.6 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 7:00 AM EST

    Most people here are missing the point that this is research about deterring rapists and sex offenders... not dating. Thank you to the reporter who came up with the nifty title for the article and obviously had no clue what he was reporting on.

    • 5 votes
    #1.7 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 9:56 AM EST

    WMG: you missed the point. The study is about the chemical in tears causing a chemical reaction in others, not about women manipulating that reaction for or against to gain sexual attractiveness.

    The mistake is the reporter's misguided (and sexist) nterpretation of the science, not the science. (sexist because the chemical reaction they're studying relates to both sexes. The only reason they studied women's tears is because they volunteered more readily for this. They're studying men's tears next because they know they carry the same chemicals in their tears.) The study had nothing to do with romantic laisons resulting from tears (or no tears).

    This kind of silly writing is exactly why you often see a study printed with people commenting afterwards that they can't believe they wasted taxpayer dollars for it. The science is good. The story is silly.

    • 4 votes
    #1.8 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 10:31 AM EST

    I don't think it will drive off a rapist. I won't say all but for the vast majority of rapist. It is about dominating someone else not about being sexually attracted to them. I guess maybe it could help with date rape, but I would rather my daughters and wife use mace/pepper spray.

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    #1.9 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 11:54 AM EST

    Agreed WH

    One might reasonably assume that a woman being raped might be producing tears of her own...which seem to have no effect on the rapist.

    • 3 votes
    #1.10 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 12:53 PM EST

    Here's a good report on the research that totally slams this guy for his bad interpretation: bit.ly/h1AEDG

      #1.11 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 2:26 PM EST

      Other researchers also have detected proteins associated with emotions: They've found dopamine and serotonin in tears, as well as prolactin, the desire-squelching hormone that spikes right after a man ejaculates and sends him running to watch SportsCenter rather than sticking around to cuddle.

      LOL!

        #1.12 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 2:44 PM EST

        I haven't read all the comments, but I guess the next question might be... do those chemicals affect different men in different ways....ie....do tears actually turn a rapist on, while diminishing desire in "normal" men?

          #1.13 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 3:41 AM EST
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          So glad there are men doing research to tell women what they already know. Seriously, is there a woman on this planet who doesn't already know that men don't find her crying to be sexy? Well, glad science is around to confirm women's reality.

          • 19 votes
          Reply#2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 2:59 PM EST

          Lee - like, duh -

            #2.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:00 PM EST

            That's what science is about: collecting data. How would a single woman know this? Her casual gossip session with girlfriends? Her keen sense of intuition, the same sense that brings intangible benefits to corporations that are forced to
            "diversify"?

            Women have an arsenal of tools to manipulate men. It's great to read that men are applying science to educate other men.

            • 1 vote
            #2.2 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 2:50 AM EST

            WMG: read this post and you'll understand exacctly how this story contributes to misunderstanding. Vincent here is actually going to try to argue that science backs up his mysogeny.

            • 4 votes
            #2.3 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 10:36 AM EST

            Her keen sense of intuition, the same sense that brings intangible benefits to corporations that are forced to "diversify"?

            Actually Vincent, being forced to "diversify" has brought extremely tangible benefits to corporations, in the form of greater immunity from the recession. According to Forbes: "The fewer female managers a company has, the greater drop in its share price since January 2008."

            • 2 votes
            #2.4 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 7:28 PM EST

            A typical male viewpont - that all that is on every woman's mind relates to HIM - worries about being sexy to attract him! every single second of her life, evil plans to manipulate him - what if she simply feels pain (and being around the guy who wrote this, I am sure she does) and crying happens to be a healthy, honest way to express that? Not to mention, to communicate very directly the fact that his behavior is hurtful and in the case of this fool of a writer - probably destructive. SEXIST is right, that absolutely expresses the gross bias in this viewpoint. Not to mention the fact the the word CHICK is GROSSLY sexist. A chick is a tiny, cute, infant chicken with an infinitesimal brain - easily squashed by any boot. Cute and fluffy - but grows up to be chicken breasts, hello!!! Like calling women's breasts a 'rack' - the antlers on a deer some lunatic has just shot! We ALL need to be as conscious of the destructiveness of sexism, as aware as we are to the viciousness of racism! They are both forms of hatred, and hatred destroys.

            • 2 votes
            #2.5 - Mon Jan 10, 2011 12:31 PM EST

            My belief is that since mating behavior trumps everything it is quite possible that the women's tears may denote that she is not a good candidate to carry a child (if that would be a result of her mating with her partner) and that her possible unstable emotional state may cause the male to not choose her to mate with.

              #2.6 - Thu Jan 20, 2011 7:53 AM EST

              Usually, when I'm crying, the last thing I'm thinking about is whether my husband finds me "hot" or not!

                #2.7 - Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:26 PM EST
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                This may be a shock. Ready? OK...not everything a woman does is done to attract men. How weird, I know. Women cry when they feel sad or upset. Yes, some of them cry to be manipulative, but you shouldn't be spending your time with those women, anyway.

                • 38 votes
                Reply#3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:03 PM EST

                Great, now my girlfriend is going to cry - and then cry harder because she thinks I don't find her sexy while she cries!

                Thanks MSNBC for ruining another Friday night!

                • 8 votes
                #3.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:26 PM EST

                Amen Emily - not to put to fine a point on it - manipulative women are very high maintence. period. What man with any grey cells want very high maintence?

                • 3 votes
                #3.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:02 PM EST
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                Brian Alexander, you are a jerk! Were you purposely trying to insult women? Here's a clue for you - women who are crying AREN'T thinking about sex. I guess you were trying to turn an scientific study into something cutesie to read. Instead it was moronic and sophmoric. You and your editor need a swift kick in the pants if you think this was anything other than annoying.

                • 34 votes
                Reply#4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:06 PM EST

                Thank you, differnet! My sentiments, w/o tears, exactly. I'm sure those scientists were aghast at this juvenille fluff.

                • 12 votes
                #4.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:46 PM EST

                Why would they be aghast? Their study was quite specifically about the chemical signal within tears that detract from male sexual desire-- hence the sniffing of tears (and the control: fake tears) followed by viewing of arousing photography. I mean, did you read the @!$%#ing article? The scientists' conclusion was that:

                “women’s emotional tears contain a chemosignal that reduces sexual arousal in men.”

                Way to prove your inability to read... or maybe your just proving your ability to be constantly offended by absolutely anything that suggests women as sexual beings.

                • 4 votes
                #4.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:56 PM EST

                WMG - yeah, we know what the article says. Discerning, differnet, AP and Tracey are annoyed by the patronising tone of the article, not by any perceived mishandling of the science. The science is clear enough. The article is irritating and poorly-written.

                • 5 votes
                #4.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 11:20 PM EST

                Female manipulations need to be understood. Of course, as with pornography, women object to any demystification of femininity, including DNA paternity tests.

                • 2 votes
                #4.4 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 2:52 AM EST

                Oh and men aren't manipulative at all. Geesh! Or when men manipulate is it just out-right lying.

                • 2 votes
                #4.5 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 8:55 AM EST

                WMG: re-read. You're REALLY missing the point.

                • 3 votes
                #4.6 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 10:37 AM EST

                Mr. Denali---how does porn "demystify" women?

                • 1 vote
                #4.7 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 2:31 PM EST

                To everyone:

                Thank you for your (mostly) non-antagonistic corrections. I get that the article is written from a poorly conceived slant, but there are plenty of people on here posting objections to the science, which is what I am defending. AP-- I don't believe I missed the point at all. The researchers' stated conclusion was pretty specific.

                  #4.8 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 8:06 PM EST
                  Reply

                  Does the "Weeper of the House know this!"

                  • 12 votes
                  Reply#5 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:25 PM EST

                  "... turned out the women was pregnant."

                  "... out the women was pregnant."

                  "... the women was pregnant."

                  "... women was pregnant."

                  "... women was..."

                  I think I have to stop reading the news online.

                  • 3 votes
                  Reply#6 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:36 PM EST

                  You're doing it wrong.

                  > turned out the women was pregnant

                  > women was

                  There. That's all you needed. Would've saved the XHTML generator quite a few line breaks...

                  • 2 votes
                  #6.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 3:59 PM EST

                  also, "... comprised of saline." "Comprised" doesn't need "of" -- it should read "comprising."

                  Sigh. I really hate how major news outlets are just getting sloppier.

                  • 1 vote
                  #6.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:58 PM EST
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                  I can think of a ton of reasons a woman might cry and 99% of them she would not want to follow with a romp in the sack so good, glad the tears a turn off. Maybe we should do a study on what a man can do for a woman to be a turn on.

                  • 19 votes
                  Reply#7 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:00 PM EST

                  Well, studies have shown that men who help with housework can be a turn-on for many women :)

                  • 14 votes
                  #7.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:47 PM EST

                  It also doesn't hurt to have loads of cash.

                  • 2 votes
                  #7.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:59 PM EST

                  That's strange. I do TONS of housework and NONE of it seems to attract the ladies.

                  • 2 votes
                  #7.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:31 PM EST

                  Well, darn.All that wasted effort learning to cook.

                    #7.4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:28 PM EST

                    Not, it doesn't hurt, WG, not if you're into that kind of woman.

                    • 2 votes
                    #7.5 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 7:08 AM EST

                    Total crock of sheot. I'm working from home today, doing laundry and cleaning the kitchen. When my wife gets home she'll go right over to the TV and watch her TIVO'd soaps, eat and go to bed. Nothing is more attractive to men than neglect.

                      #7.6 - Wed Jan 19, 2011 2:24 PM EST
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                      Good to know the "let's tell women what to do" media machine is still around and kicking.

                      Despite all inclinations, there actually was a way to write about this study without implying that women shouldn't do things they feel like doing sometimes, and that the only thing women ever try to do is be attractive to men. Try it next time.

                      Yeesh.

                      • 15 votes
                      Reply#8 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:09 PM EST

                       when i see a girl crying she's still about as attractive as usual, just not in an erotic sense.  no fancy pheromones needed.  just the sight of a girl crying and i can't be stimulated.

                      • 2 votes
                      Reply#9 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:14 PM EST

                      I totally agree.  Stupidest.  Article.  Ever.   "Bottom line, ladies? If you're looking for arousal, don't turn on the waterworks."  Gee, thanks for the news flash.  

                      • 10 votes
                      Reply#10 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:28 PM EST

                      What happens when the (new) male Speak of the House goes on one of his frequent public crying displays on the House floor? Is that sexy?

                      • 6 votes
                      Reply#11 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:51 PM EST

                      Bottom line, ladies? If you're looking for arousal, don't turn on the waterworks.

                      Get a boob job.

                      • 1 vote
                      Reply#12 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 4:52 PM EST

                      I can't think of a greater turn-off than a women with 'enhanced' breasts. The size of a woman's breasts have very little to do with whether I find her attractive or not.

                      • 4 votes
                      #12.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:03 PM EST

                      @sundiver-That's true. I'm a woman, but I do know that men hate fake breasts, and it's because they're only appealing to one sense, which is the sight. But they feel terrible. At least real ones have movement, and softness, and feeling. Keep your bosoms real, ladies.

                      • 3 votes
                      #12.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:39 PM EST

                      Actually, most of us find that in order to attract men for sex, we need only have a pulse and two X chromosomes.

                      • 10 votes
                      #12.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:56 PM EST

                      You're flattering yourself by thinking that every woman with fake boobs would be interested in dating you and your ego. That's SO hot. (pfft.)

                        #12.5 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 7:12 AM EST
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                        Yeah, what about when a MAN cries?

                        And how about some theory about the evolutionary reason for all this? Is crying supposed to stimulate compassion?

                        • 2 votes
                        Reply#14 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:11 PM EST

                        Wow, this is great information, since clearly women's sole objective for all forms of expression is to arouse men.

                        • 15 votes
                        Reply#15 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:13 PM EST

                        Swing and a miss.

                        • 1 vote
                        #15.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:03 PM EST

                        Ignore WMG, writer. Women cry all the time around him, and he has yet to figure out why.

                        • 4 votes
                        #15.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:58 PM EST

                        Wow, Tracey, resulting to personal attacks? Someone is insecure...

                          #15.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 9:44 PM EST
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                          Seriously, someone studies this?

                          • 4 votes
                          Reply#16 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:17 PM EST

                          It furthers our knowledge of human biochemistry, which is never a waste of time. The article, however, is five minutes of my life I'll never get back.

                          • 6 votes
                          #16.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:59 PM EST
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                          Do you hear that Mr. Weeper of the House John Boehner? Crying isn't sexy so pull up your panties and stop crying, for God's sake!

                          • 9 votes
                          Reply#17 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:22 PM EST

                          I agree with a lot of the comments here -- that headline is so offensive, and should have been nixed by an editor. Women aren't around only to arouse men. You probably think women shouldn't nurse in public because boobs are only for turning men on. Have you been fired yet?

                          • 12 votes
                          Reply#18 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:23 PM EST

                          News flash- Whining doesn't turn men on either.

                            #18.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:04 PM EST

                            News flash, self-important jerks are a turn off for women, WMG.

                            • 8 votes
                            #18.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:32 PM EST

                            Trying to get men fired doesn't turn them on either.

                              #18.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:32 PM EST

                              Some of the male reactions to the postings under this article are PRICELESS. Can you spell

                              I-N-S-E-C-U-R-I-T-Y?

                              • 6 votes
                              #18.4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:00 PM EST

                              Tracey-- see my response to your personal attack above.

                                #18.5 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 9:45 PM EST

                                WMG, I think we all see whose insecure here and it's not Tracey.

                                • 5 votes
                                #18.6 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:24 PM EST

                                I don't find it offensive.

                                I found it rather amusing.

                                Oh, and I'm a chick so what?

                                Sure he talks about the use of sexual imagery within the study, however it was for a comparison in reactions under two different states.

                                This study isn't suprising.

                                Take a step outside of yourself, it's only an article. Why get into a fit over it.

                                Take it to these people->http://guerrillagirls.com/

                                Not like people have gone on whinning and complaining of the female figure nude portrayed in the Art World over several decades.

                                  #18.7 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:40 PM EST

                                  Thank you for your rational position, Light Weaver. I checked out the link-- cool.

                                    #18.8 - Sun Jan 9, 2011 6:34 PM EST
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                                    these scientists are idiots to say the least. stupid sexist study.the ones who did the study, were probably lousy in bed.

                                    • 2 votes
                                    Reply#19 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:30 PM EST

                                    As any man with the slightest experience knows, a woman’s tears are powerful tools, eliciting abject apologies, unexpected confessions and urgent begging of “Honey, stop, please.” But one thing they are not, is sexy.

                                    Seriously dude, that is the most stereotypical, insulting, insensitive, un-intelligent, sexist thing you could have written regarding this study. You should be fired. Did it ever cross your mind that most crying women aren't trying to be sexy? The last time I checked, they cry because they are sad, in pain, grieving, etc.--not because they want to have a good time. "Stop the waterworks, ladies"--if I said that, I believe I would have every right to be slapped, dumped, and publically humiliated for being an ass.

                                    • 18 votes
                                    Reply#21 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:46 PM EST

                                    Oh. My. God.

                                    Read the study.

                                    This is a neurochemical study about the ability of tears, divorced from the visual element of a woman crying, having a (now) proven, physical effect on the male brain. They were sniffing tears, for @!$%#s sake. The scientists had a hypothesis that a woman crying would cause men to lose the ability to be aroused, even when confronted by arousing pictures of women-- again, divorced from the visual elements associated with a crying female. They just proved that women's emotional tears have a physical effect on the male brain, and all you can think about is how "sexist" the study was?

                                    Get a life. Stop being offended.

                                    • 1 vote
                                    #21.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:07 PM EST

                                    To WMG-21: I think they have read it. That is not the problem. The problem is they don't understand or accurately define what they read.

                                    • 2 votes
                                    #21.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:26 PM EST

                                    No, look at the comments both of you. The complaints are about the little asides thrown in with the study.

                                    • 5 votes
                                    #21.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:33 PM EST

                                    Amen to that Nate.

                                    • 2 votes
                                    #21.4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:08 PM EST

                                    WMG,

                                    I have no problem with the study and I never said that I did. However, I do have a problem with this writers attitude. Your tone suggests to me that you're not very old, so 'respect' is probably a foreign concept to you. I advise you to learn it. No man has the right to treat a lady like an object. They are not play things that can be used whenever men want to have fun. "Stop the waterworks, ladies. Crying chicks aren't sexy." This headline is tacky and insulting. There is a name for the act of a man telling a woman not to cry because he finds it un-atractive: emotional abuse.

                                    • 8 votes
                                    #21.5 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:26 PM EST

                                    It's just an article why bother whining about it. It's just a provocative voice.

                                    Take it with a grain of salt.

                                    Then again I read the Onion. I guess I do have a sense of humor to take things at a non-personal level.

                                      #21.6 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:46 PM EST

                                      Nate-- I'm almost 30, so I'm not a "kid" and I do have respect-- most preeminently for scientists and researchers who progress our understanding of the world. I do not have respect for mommy-coddled, thin-skinned irrationals who are offended by a writer's provocative language. It got you to read the article, didn't it?

                                        #21.7 - Sat Jan 8, 2011 8:28 PM EST

                                        WMG,

                                        I'm seventeen and I plan to go to college and become a psychologist, so I do not respect those who take good scientific information and write about it in a way that undermines it's value. The author of this article not only left out information about the study, but he wrote about it as if the point of the study was to prove that crying women were not 'sexy'. The headline was extremely distasteful and the only reason I read the article was because it was listed in the 'science' section of the news.

                                        • 2 votes
                                        #21.8 - Sun Jan 9, 2011 7:29 PM EST
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                                        Tears are not a 'powerful tool' as the lame stream media likes to put it. Tears are a 'manipulative tool' used to get their way. Big difference between 'powerful and manipulative'. Powerful infers it is a legitimate and mature way to live a life or solve a problem.

                                        • 1 vote
                                        Reply#22 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:48 PM EST

                                        Yeah...when my close friend died last year, I cried because I was trying to manipulate some man. Get. A. Life. Bitterness is not an acceptable response to constant rejection.

                                        • 7 votes
                                        #22.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:03 PM EST
                                        Comment author avatarWMG-21Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                        Tracey, I'm beginning to sense a superiority complex brooding beneath your arrogance. Of the few comments of yours I've read so far, yours have contained personal attacks in nearly every case. Now, why would you feel the need to belittle others? It does not further your cause. Rational discussion and presentment of facts is generally the agreed-upon tactic of persuasion. I feel that I have done a fair job of that so far. You seem to be harping on men out of spite. For example:

                                        Actually, most of us find that in order to attract men for sex, we need only have a pulse and two X chromosomes

                                        An attack on male sexuality.

                                        Women cry all the time around him, and he has yet to figure out why.

                                        An attack on me.

                                        The article, however, is five minutes of my life I'll never get back.

                                        An attack on the author.

                                        Some of the male reactions to the postings under this article are PRICELESS. Can you spell

                                        I-N-S-E-C-U-R-I-T-Y?

                                        Another attack on men.

                                        You're right. I HATE it when men whine and cry. Can you take it out back, please?

                                        Another attack on men, this time apparently belittling men's emotional responses.

                                        And now this against Rockofages-- not that I'm necessarily defending his statements. But still, your comments beg the question- can you spell insecurity? You must, because it's written all over your posts.

                                        • 1 vote
                                        #22.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 9:54 PM EST
                                        Reply

                                        Sean, hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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                                        Reply#23 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:50 PM EST

                                        Crying isn't sexy. Wow, stop the presses. This article has changed my whole thought process on how I need to live my life, because, you know, the main thing that concerns me at every waking moment of my life is, "gee, is what I'm doing right now sexy?" And now I understand why my husband isn't aroused when I'm having a good cry over my dad's sudden death and/or my scary health diagnosis. Come to think of it...if he WERE aroused, he'd be a moron (aka the guy who wrote this article and/or the editor that approved its headline).

                                        • 12 votes
                                        Reply#24 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 5:57 PM EST
                                        Comment author avatarWMG-21Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                        Try reading the article again without becoming an offended, emotional wreck.

                                        The scientists were studying the neurochemical components present in emotional tears collected from females and the effects that those chemicals have on men. The study concluded that:

                                        “women’s emotional tears contain a chemosignal that reduces sexual arousal in men.”

                                        The fact that these tears caused this physical effect does not reflect any kind of bias on the part of the scientists involved in the study nor the author of this article, bringing the conclusions of this study to public light.

                                        The fact that you invent a bias in order to become offended presents more startling evidence of your own psychology than those of the scientists involved in this study.

                                        • 1 vote
                                        #24.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:12 PM EST

                                        WMG: very few, if any, of the comments are dissing the actual science in any way. They're dissing the sexist, cliche, and downright disgusting way that the author of this write-up of it decided to "spin" the paper. Go see the write up by Ed Yong at Not Exactly Rocket Science for an example of how to showcase how cool the study was without insinuating that women are manipulative whores whose every action is to somehow seduce men.

                                        • 8 votes
                                        #24.2 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 4:23 AM EST
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                                        And scientists spent time and money on this crap? Any woman could have given you this information for free. Duh! And no woman wants a man climbing all over her when she's upset.

                                        And here's some more free science. There are several ways to attract a man.

                                        • 4 votes
                                        Reply#25 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:09 PM EST

                                        But you, and "any" woman, would be unlikely to describe the chemical compound inherent in emotional tears that illicit this physical reaction in men. Just because the end result is obvious does not mean that the mechanisms at work necessarily are.

                                          #25.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:16 PM EST

                                          WMG: keep trying and you'll get there. The science being studied is about the purpose of these compounds in our emotional tears, a very big stretch from where the writer takes this: 'hold your tears ladies'. Are you getting this now? It's not the science being reacted to here. It's the interpretation of the science through a very silly lens.

                                          • 2 votes
                                          #25.2 - Fri Jan 7, 2011 11:00 AM EST

                                          AP-- I understand, really I do. But this gal Crystal began her comment with:

                                          And scientists spent time and money on this crap?

                                          Which is a direct antagonism against the researchers and the science being developed by them. Far from being offended by the author's slant, she has decided to deride the content of the research itself.

                                            #25.3 - Sun Jan 9, 2011 6:38 PM EST
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                                            Stupid article. Brian Alexander, I hope you didn't give up your day job!

                                            I must say, though, seeing John Boehner's chin start to quiver and his mouth contort and tears start to well up and trickle down, just makes my stomach turn! Talk about the need to dry up some tears!

                                            Bottom line, ladies? This article is a piece of crap; don't pay any attention to it.

                                            • 4 votes
                                            Reply#26 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:16 PM EST

                                            Your needless outrage and political hackmanship has been noted.

                                              #26.1 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:17 PM EST

                                              Amen to that Tater - [may i comment on taught - hmmmmm :) ]

                                              • 1 vote
                                              #26.2 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 7:16 PM EST

                                              Kate: At the time I picked this name I was feeling very "taut". :)

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                                              #26.3 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:30 PM EST

                                              WMG on tauter's comment: As well as off topic. o.o Okay? so he cried, it happens? Big Deal?

                                                #26.4 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 10:50 PM EST
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                                                In 2011 I can't belive men haven't improved. This is really a stupid article, what's it's purpose? If a women is crying she usually has a reason, nothing the knuckleheads would understand. A piece of advice, don't write what you know nothing about, you come off like an imbecile.

                                                  Reply#27 - Thu Jan 6, 2011 6:29 PM EST
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